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If You Really Want Me, You’ll Fight Hard To Keep Me | Show Me Through Your Action That I Am The One For You

If You Really Want Me, You’ll Fight Hard To Keep Me | Show Me Through Your Action That I Am The One For You

I want someone who will love me for me. If you really want me, you'll fight for me. If not, it's your loss.

I know that relationships take compromise and understanding, but it takes two to tango. I've had my fair share of relationships to know what I truly want from my partner. And I want something that lasts a lifetime. Are you in it for the long haul? Or is this where we call it quits? 

I want a man who wants me for everything I am, flaws and all. You appreciated me when you didn't have me, saying that you would get me the moon if I wanted it. But, you're not here anymore and you're already off to the next conquest. I know I'm not perfect but who is? If you can't have me at my worst, then you can't have me at all.  

I want to feel assured that you want me and no one else. You forget about me because you love the thrill of the chase. Show me that you're the person who cares for me even in the long haul. I want to feel safe in a relationship knowing that I can't lose you to someone else. If you can't give me the assurance I want in a relationship, then don't bother being in it at all. 

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I want you to experience the same spark you felt when you met me for the first time. I remember the day you looked at me saying that you would be with no one but me. What changed? Come after me again and again even after you have me, and I'll know then that you want something real and genuine. 

I want to retain myself in a relationship and be true to who I am. Allow me to reach for the stars, with you by my side. Don't be with me if you can't support me. 

I want the fairytale from the books and movies, and no one can change my mind about it. The kind of relationship we women dream about since we were little girls. If you can't do something 'extra' for me every now and then, maybe it's time for me to move on.

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Don't lead me on if you don't really want me. I'm strong enough to pick up my pieces and leave in an instant if what we have isn't real. I understand that the initial spark does tend to fade, but is not your duty, just as it's mine, to reignite it? If you're not willing to make that effort, then it's time for you to leave. 

 

If you can't imagine your future with me, then don't take me for a ride. I crave deep love and attention, so leaving me to figure my own emotions is the last thing I expect you to do. I need a partner who can go through thick and thin to support me. Allow me to make a home inside of you where I can feel comfortable and safe.